Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Boob Touching Friends Mom

HOW TO MAKE A COME THE "chutzpah" means a separate chapter, or "art dell'autoinvito" A

temporanenamente classes were suspended but not terminated, the fact is that I itched my hands and I did the other, sooner or later publish.

So the forwards itself.
nightmare Bonton -institutional, fear and embarrassment of the timid, ashamed of stone in your shoe ... immense joy of caterpillar careless - not quite, but almost - of what surrounds them.
first thing in the field immediately swept away by false beliefs: for as I understand it, the forwards itself is not going to latch. when it sends itself, if not the very last moment, at least presents us with a cake, and possibly done with his own hands.
this not because there are never empty-handed, but because he says that we did for you, and I thought that's what it came out (well, maybe if the burn ... a nice bowl Ice cream? or a bottle of wine?).
if do not have it done, you are now with closed shops, where it all started because you just passed to say hi and then ... So it helps to prepare, it clears the table, wash the dishes ... is from 'a hand, in short, whether it was tea, is a more demanding dinner.
is ok, but how it sends itself?
what is the magic phrase?
there!
there because you have to dare, and it is not as difficult as you might think.
do a little poll: how many of you have heard someone say "yeah, go and visit, come on, when you want, so we are always here" and how many times have you picked up this invitation, so just taking it to the letter?
mh ... if I think about my experience, I can tell you that I have received so many calls and also, frankly, I find the great invitations. because I think, wanting to make a very very fussy, if you really enjoyed that walk from you, you should not say "when you" Ask me Instead, "when you can?" so we get organized. that if the premise is "anytime" to a force sends itself, is not it?
as you say? The first phone call to see if you can?
okay, let's: you can even invited himself over the phone, you know?
no problem if you say "Come on, come on, go, willingly, we are waiting," but if you say "acc ... look we're coming to shop ... we do it again, come on, maybe for dinner "... Does that sound a bit 'like "when you" first?
the fact is that as you create an expectation that some 'leaves us disappointed ... which is perhaps a bit 'not the real obstacle to jump, and the whole history of non-sta-well-do-well it is only a pretext to mask the disappointment of a no.
instead wander in, well, not planned, not planned, not even imagined when you're on the road itself has a spontaneity and sincerity that you really will pave the road.
do not know if I can explain, but here, I think part of how you're the greatest gospel of "do unto others as you would have done unto you." when organizing a dinner, if someone asks me if I can bring a friend with whom he had already made an agreement, but that's not altogether sorry to cheat because they would miss the evening with friends ... well, but explain to me what to do? bring it on, no? what's the problem! In short, if someone sends itself to me, but I'm not pleased, indeed, I find then that these things are most successful, because more spontaneous, [and remember, I have also had the honor of ' mailed to the funeral of my grandfather ...].
short, sends itself to me because it is natural to think of how happy I am when I get one.
can not be all roses, of course not, bad experiences I've experienced, but not in sufficient numbers to have tipped the balance on their side.

you know, when you say that giving is better than receiving and all that stuff? Well, it's all part of this. weather, the local branch of the Red Cross could not get in contact with a neighborhood family dell'Altrametàdelcielo: so my dad, who was there, he called me because I asked him to try to ring the bell and see if there was any problem. and he forced a volunteer, we went rumbling because he had to dress up and stop what he was doing, sure that he would go there, or if you had taken?: put something had happened ...
well, when he recalls that afternoon, still lights up happy: just put the phone was bad, nothing serious, but the family welcomed him home was not Santa Claus with the prizes of the lottery, never stopped to thank him most They did not know what to offer, they wanted even give him a tip.
and I, when I see it, I love a piece of more ...

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